The Married Girlfriend

My husband and I have been married 15 years and I love him more today than I did the day we tied the knot. He is my best friend, the father of my three children, my life partner and the head of my household.

The key to our longevity is friendship and great sex. We have teenage children, but we can’t keep our hands off each other. While some women have taken a vow to love their man in sickness and in health, I’ve promised to keep my man happy, even if my hair is nappy.

Listen up girlfriends, just because you may be married or in a committed relationship doesn’t mean your man will not step out on you. You better ask somebody! The way you keep him close to you is to take care of him in the bedroom.

In some circles, my husband and I would be considered freaks, but our goal is to please each other. I am not exactly a small girl, but where ever my man wants it, that’s the place I give it to him.

The grocery store bathroom, fitting room at the mall, in the car, the handicap stall at Burger King, in the movie theater and we get a kick out of sneaking into our own bathroom when company is over to get a quickie.

My husband and I love the great outdoors. I can’t tell you how many pair of panties I have left in the grass, woods, snow and sand because we heard someone coming and we had to make a run for it.

I have taken on new identities with wigs, fake eye lashes, boas and an occasional costume here and there --- the French maid, nurse, librarian and of course the stripper. We’ve been the stars of many of our own X-rated movies. One time, we lost one of videos and we were sure it would turn up on the internet.

Every time I make love to my husband, my goal is to blow his mind. Do something new and exciting. When it comes to pleasing my husband, he can make me do stuff sober that most women wouldn’t dream of doing when they are drunk. Our love for each other is intoxicating.

We’ve had a lot of fun, but we’ve also had some mishaps, like the time he decided to cover me with whipped cream while we were out in the grass --- the bugs ate my ass up. Then, there was the time we were romping in a wooded area and a skunk crept up on us. The worst was one night on a park bench and someone turned his headlights on us, but it was too good to stop.

The mystery and excitement of doing naughty things makes us want each other more. We know each other’s love language. We also connect spiritually, intellectually, and we’re on the same page financially. We are both high-powered and high-paid professionals. He works in the field of science and research and I work in the criminal justice system.

My husband and I do it a lot. In fact, I sleep with one eye open because if he moves in the middle of the night, I want him to roll over on me. When we make love, the feeling is indescribable. It’s magical. It’s loving and honest. Married girlfriends, get on your job! There are too many single women on the prowl for me to hold out on my man. Nope. Not me! I’m not letting any other woman take my man. I will continue to make my man happy, even when my hair is nappy!

Signed Happily Married & Loving It